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  • 1940s

    Forrest Harley "Bud" Frappier

    鈥 BSc鈥46

    Summer 2023

    Forrest Harley "Bud" Frappier passed away on March 12, 2023. He was predeceased by his wife, Daye (Brunton); his parents, Tena (Sharp) and Frank Frappier; and siblings, Sybil (MacDonald), Curtis, Eileen (Borthwick), and Nadine (Trewin).  

    Forrest Harley "Bud" Frappier attended Glebe Collegiate, graduated from Lisgar Collegiate, started at Queen鈥檚, served in the Navy, then returned to Queen鈥檚 and graduated in 1946. His four-decade working career was with E.B. Eddy in increasingly responsible engineering positions. 

    Recreational pursuits included: racing and rallying with the Motorsports Club of Ottawa in the 50s; boating at the family cottage on McGregor Lake in the 60s; cross-country skiing in the Gatineaus; and large boat sailing in Kingston in the 70s. He had a talent for fabricating 鈥 a race car, boats, and trailers, among others. He loved exercising his skill at going faster, but in precise control of a moving vehicle. 

    Following his retirement in 1984, he and Daye moved closer to their boat in Kingston. After her death in 1993, he reconnected with another youthful passion 鈥 motorcycles. This led to regular summer treks to Nova Scotia and fall excursions to B.C., California, and Utah visiting relatives. When he took off his helmet, people were amazed, as they expected someone much younger! He biked into his 90s, then moved into a retirement residence in Ottawa in 2013.

    He had a special affinity for cats and they for him. He cherished the companionship of various ones over many decades. 

    He renewed his driver's license at age 98. He was mobile and remarkably healthy and with it to the end. He achieved his goal of reaching 100. He died peacefully after a life well-lived. He was

    quietly independent, and a great storyteller with a keen sense of humour. He looked forward to adventures. He was a wonderful colleague, neighbour, and friend. He was beloved by his and Daye鈥檚 families. 

  • 1950s

    Norman F. Cohrs

    鈥 BA'57

    Summer 2023

    Norman F. Cohrs passed away in Kingston on March 16, 2023. He was predeceased by his Ella, and older "Queen's" siblings, Raymond, Edna, and Charles.

    He was born in Sudbury and raised in Chapleau. Like his siblings before him, he attended Queen鈥檚. 

    He was a math teacher of note in Ottawa for 35 years in a profession he loved. He was predeceased by his beloved Maxine in 2018; parents, Carl and Ella; and older siblings, Raymond, Edna, Charles. He is survived by four children, Douglas, Stephen (Joan), Peter (Wilma) and Katrina; grandchildren, Paul, Heather, Andrew, Harrison, Elliot, Logan and Spencer; their spouses and great grandchildren, Ayden, Paige, Thea, Hudson and Parker (2022). He is survived, too, by his lively in-laws, Jacqui and Murray; nieces, Beverly, Nancy and Tara. 

    Born in 1930 in Sudbury, raised in Chapleau, he attended Queen's, graduating in 1957. He was a fine math teacher in Ottawa for 35 years, a profession he loved. He and his wife built a family with four energetic kids. They also built the beautiful ketch "Almitra" and sailed in Ottawa, then Kingston. Time on Almitra was his passion and elixir; the compliments he received about Almitra's classic good looks never ended.

    He had an inquiring mind and considerable vision. He was a bit cynical and contrarian too. He also had a legendary dry sense of humour. He had a lifelong interest in steam trains; he was a bridge player, a chatty raconteur, depression-boy frugal, who loved a bargain; and a man of conviction and contradiction, delightfully so. 

    He liked his knives sharp, his coffee hot, his politics left, his classical music loud, and the CBC always. He was a messy manager. He was very good with his hands; he could build almost anything with the most basic tools and he could solve (and create) almost any problem.

    Over the last few years, his physical capabilities declined, but he still had his sharp mind. He kept doggedly shuffling along, and enjoyed drives along the Adolphus Reach, reminiscing about the good old sailing days.

  • 1960s

    Terence Ross Carscadden

    鈥 BA鈥61, MD鈥64

    Summer 2023

    Terry Carscadden died peacefully in the arms of his family in Sudbury on Feb. 14, 2023. 

    Beloved husband of Sylvia Grace (Black). They were married in Applewood United Church in August 1959. He was the loving father of Susan Carscadden-Mifsud (Paul Mifsud), Barbara Maki (Bill), Ron Carscadden (Natalie), Janine Carscadden (Eva Ekeroth); inspiring grandpa to Kenny Maki (Emily Duhaime), Scott Maki (Cassandra Rees), Heidi Maki (Max Ryan), Sophie, Callum and Roman Carscadden; brother of Alan Carscadden and the late Robert Carscadden; brother-in-law to the late Betty (Agnew) Carscadden, late Norma (Lamon) Carscadden, late Peter and Susan Black, and Catherine Black.

    He was a doctor, a teacher, a joyous skier, and an avid golfer. He was kind, and witty, and he gave himself generously to his family and the patients for whom he cared. He had a curiosity that made him well-versed in all things mechanical, the human body, phone technology, YouTube clips, and violins and violin makers, to mention a few of his many interests.

    Terry was the son of the late Mabel (Ewing) and late Melville Carscadden of Sault Ste Marie, Ont. He attended Alex Muir Public School and graduated from Sault Collegiate. He went to Queen鈥檚 to study mechanical engineering, but his career path meandered and he graduated with a medical degree from Queen鈥檚. After interning at Toronto Western Hospital, Terry and Sylvia and their young family moved to Lively, Ont., where he joined the Lively Medical Centre with Drs. Jack Marlow and Peter Bayly. He was a respected family physician, who retired from his family practice in 2005, continuing to work in clinics until 2014. He described those 45 years as a 鈥渨onderful career.鈥

    Sports gave Terry鈥檚 life shape and focus. His first love was skiing, then he switched to driving fast; later he took up golf with a vengeance. He loved hockey and played with the Sudbury Hardocs. Finally, he bought the first Laser sailboat in the Sudbury area and learned to sail. He believed that he could learn anything by reading books and taking lessons from the 鈥渆xperts.鈥  Consequently, he nurtured a relationship and golfed with Sam Snead in 1992, and skied with Nancy Greene and Ernie McCullough.

    He was a violinist and played in the Sault Symphonette, the Kingston and Sudbury Symphony Orchestras and the Jubilee Folk Group. He sang in church choirs all his life, and he and Sylvia were regulars at the Festival of the Sound in Parry Sound. He was the best roadie for Kampana Bells, Sylvia鈥檚 handbell choir.

    He taught his children and grandchildren to golf and ski. In the summer, they shared rounds of golf and endless miles of water skiing and boating at the 鈥渃amp鈥 on Long Lake, a favourite spot for friends and family. On his 80th birthday, Terry led a long line, in formation, of those he had taught to ski, down a run at Searchmont.

    His short teaching career at Alex Muir school in Sault Ste Marie left an indelible mark on his students, whom he encouraged to move ahead in an enrichment program that marked their lives with great opportunity and success. He was described as lively, dynamic, and supportive of his students.

  • 1940s

    Anton Chiperzak

    鈥 BSc鈥47

    Summer 2023

    Anton (Chip) Chiperzak of Tweed, Ont., passed away peacefully on March 9, 2023. He was 98.

    He is survived by his sons, Robert Jy Chiperzak (Arts鈥71) and Doug Chiperzak; his brother, Edwin Chiperzak, and sister Virginia Chiperzak; as well as three grandchildren, Gavin, Megan and Kasia; and three great grandchildren, Abigail, Carson and Mykayla. He is also survived by his god-daughter, Dorothy Ann Barrett. He is predeceased by his parents, Frank and Agnes; stepmother, Francis; his wife of over 60 years, Margaret (Peggy); and his brothers, Stanley and Victor.

    Chip was born in Chipman, Alta., on July 3, 1924, and grew-up on the family farm there. After high school, he attended Queen鈥檚, receiving a Bachelor of English and Applied Science, with a concentration in engineering. For much of the remainder of his life, he was an active member of the Queen鈥檚 alumni.

    After university, he was based out of Montreal until the late 1960s, before taking a position with the federal government in Industry, Trade and Commerce in Ottawa. During that time, he participated in numerous trade missions, which allowed him the opportunity to travel around the world. He loved playing golf and curling, but most of all figuring out how things work (the engineer in him). After retirement, he researched the family history and published a family record, which he distributed throughout the family.

  • Bruce Findlay in his boat

    1950s

    Bruce Harper Findlay

    鈥 BA'57

    Summer 2023

    Bruce Harper Findlay passed away on Jan. 14, 2023. He is survived by his children; Jennifer (Tim), Richard (Diane), Allison, Alexandra (Rick), Janet (Joel), Alana, and Trish; his grandchildren, Marston (Synthia), Ryan, Nelson (Veronik), Colin, Taylor (Cory), Colter (Cody), Hannah, Brad (Emily), Erika, Nick, Emme, Ircia, Tyvan, Jakob, Emily, Hayden, Logan, Holly, and Megan; and his great-grandchildren, Isaac and Axton.

    Bruce was one of a kind. He grew up on Park Street with his parents; Alexander and Mary (nee Kerr); his two brothers, Dave (Jeannette) and Ron; and his sisters, Patricia Huntus (Hoit) and Judy Favreau (Bud). His family shaped the strong values he stayed true to throughout his life.

    His early years in the militia and the reserves led to a military-like discipline in his life from his ship-shape boats to raising his family and running a busy law office. He was famous for his beret; a life-long signal that those military days were never far away.

    Bruce was a Queen鈥檚 man through and through, trying to talk each of his children and then the grandchildren into following in his footsteps.

    It was while he was at Osgoode Law School in Toronto that Bruce was introduced to Eileen Haffey. They were married in January 1959 and had their first child in October of that same year. Bruce graduated from law school with two children and another on the way. He supported his growing family and his education with a wide array of jobs, including: railroading, construction, transport truck driving, and the pipeline.

    In 1962, he and 鈥淣een鈥 headed to Kenora to build their life. He loved his time in Toronto and always had an attachment to city life, but also valued the importance of growing up in a small community.

    The law was a perfect fit for a man with such strong principles and a gift for twisting a tale to convince the jury, his family or anyone else who was listening. He was a force to be reckoned with in and out of the courtroom. He built his law firm from a one-person practice to a multi-lawyer firm with offices in Dryden and Fort Frances. The family has fond memories of the many law students who passed through and became a part of our lives, and the long-term staff, especially Shirley Tresoor and Carolyn Johnson.

    In 1968, Bruce and Neen purchased a camp on Coney Island. The neighbours loved to tell the story of the lovely young couple and their new baby, who were going to move in next door. The reality hit when the family arrived that first summer, landing at the dock and swarming up and over the hill like an army. The family became firm friends with the Inman鈥檚 from that moment and became part of the extended Coney Island family. The departure of Bruce means that another elder Coney Island statesman is gone. The family lived at Coney for three months each year and, in 2000, Bruce and Neen built their year-round home and retired full time to the island. The property holds many great family memories of beach days and family dinners for three generations.

    It was at Coney that Bruce learned to make the porridge he was famous for, as all the grandkids and visitors to the camp were served porridge with maple syrup for breakfast.

    Bruce was a man who loved to spend time messing about with boats, starting with 鈥渢he pontoon boat鈥 and later the 24鈥 Grew, the 30鈥 鈥淩ussian Boat鈥 hydrofoil, and the 40鈥 Nord Ouest, all driven at 鈥淏ruce speed.鈥 His years with Power Squadron served him well and he navigated the Nord Ouest to adventures throughout the Lake of the Woods, including annual trips to Warroad and often following LOWISA. Stories about adventures on the Nord Ouest will be told for many years to come. He instilled this love of the lake in all of us.

    After Neen鈥檚 death in 2014, Bruce experienced some health issues and lost his zest for life, until he met Loretta Edlund in 2016. Loretta gave him love and laughter again. The two of them spent hours together laughing, playing bridge, telling stories, and enjoying the peace and nature at Coney. It has been so good for us to see Bruce happy again and we love having Loretta as part of our family.

    Bruce鈥檚 final life transition happened in September 2022, when he moved to Pinecrest. He understood he could no longer get in and out of a boat the way he used to and that life on the island needed younger legs. He took Pinecrest by storm and made an impact for the short time he was there.

  • 1940s

    M. Phillis Smith

    鈥 BA'41

    Summer 2023

    Margaret Phillis Smith (nee Archibald) died peacefully in her 103rd year on March 3, 2023 in Belleville. 

    She was a lifelong member of the United Church of Canada and a long-time member of Eastminster United Church. She worked tirelessly on countless committees.

    Phillis was a proud graduate from Queen鈥檚. She worked for the inspection board of the U.K. in Canada in 1942-43 inspecting anti-aircraft guns for the army. She was the first woman elected to the Hatley Township Council in the Eastern Townships of Quebec in 1970. She was a member of the Canadian Federation of University Women in Belleville. 

    Flower gardening, playing bridge and reading were lifelong pleasures. Her smile, ready laugh, energy, and love will be greatly missed by her two daughters, her son, and grand-children.